我要嫁出去

你要相信愛你的那個人一定會抓住線繩的另一端，不管繞多少彎，依然會找到你。

當愛情來的時候，幸福原來很簡單。

剩女、拜犬。。。大家都樂此不疲地給未婚大齡女冠上各種 ‘雅號’。隨著社會上，越來越多女尊男卑的現象，遲婚/不婚，對女人而言，究竟是一種選擇，還是一種無奈？又或者是一種流行趨勢？

『嫁人』不是上超市買菜，要買什麼，付了錢就能找到想要的！貪便宜沒好貨，更別指望特價優待！因為付出的是自己下半輩子的幸福，誰不想要最好的？然而，千挑萬選就一定能得到最好的嗎？

本劇將以輕鬆幽默手法，探討現今男女晚婚與不婚的種種因素，透過三位女主角（Rainbow、劉喜喜和梁若仙），極影影院逐一剖析現代三大典型剩女的故事。。。

【第一類典型剩女：自信女】

有經濟能力，漂亮！條件優越的她們，追求者無數，穿梭在男人之間，永遠的都是群眾的焦點。因為自己事業有成，對男伴的要求也相應提高。然而，當她們厭倦了周旋在男歡女愛中，想要安定下來的時候，是否就能如願找到真心真意付出感情的男人嗎？年輕時，總是挑人的人，在青春所剩無幾的時候，是否會甘心屈就自己，讓別人挑呢？代表人物 - Rainbow。

【第二類典型剩女：工作狂】

熱愛工作，永遠處於“忙碌狀態”，忙得沒時間兼顧愛情，然而，戀愛需要時間，愛情需要育孕，婚姻更需要細心的經營；成功的事業換來的是失敗的愛情。事業與愛情，難道真的如同魚與熊掌，只能二選一嗎？還是因為“沒時間”遇上對的人？代表人物 - 劉喜喜。

【第三類典型剩女：自卑女】

缺乏自信，永遠覺得自己不夠好，不夠完美。就算遇上了夢寐的男人，也沒有勇氣相信自己是幸運的。總是在起跑點上，選擇自我懷疑，然後自我放棄…愛情故事裡的林黛玉，軟弱得不堪一擊。倘若連自己都不愛自己，又如何去愛別人，得到別人的愛護呢？代表人物 - 梁若仙。究竟是“沒有嫁不出的女人，只有不想嫁的女人”或是“只有嫁不出的女人，沒有不想嫁的女人”？代表人物 - 梁若仙。

選擇單身，是享受單身？被迫單身？或是有苦難言，言不由衷？讓我們一起輕鬆探討『出嫁』，這個對適婚仍未婚女人“不太輕鬆”的課題。

《我要嫁出去》

製作年份：2012年-2013年

製作統籌：李昭敏

監製：劉健財

播出地區：新加坡（U 頻道）

播出日期：2013年2月27起

播出時間：每逢星期三至五，晚上8.00播出

《我要嫁出去》記者會

林湘萍自認MAN不撒嬌 雅慧曾倒追男生

林湘萍自認性格像男生，演藝工作耽誤了終身大事；雅慧坦承會撒嬌，會搭訕心儀對象，還曾倒追男生！

U頻道新劇《我要嫁出去》透過3位女主角（Rainbow、劉喜喜和梁若仙），剖析現代3大典型剩女的故事。而林湘萍飾演的是工作狂劉喜喜，是個忙得沒時間兼顧愛情的婦科醫生。

日前在記者會上，林湘萍與媒體分享角色時，說到一半情緒激動，轉身擦淚，嚇壞不少人。她之後告訴xinmsn，看了預告片回想到一些東西，很有感觸。

被問及演藝工作是否耽誤了終身大事，林湘萍不違言，拍戲的話，比較少有時間去社交或認識新的朋友，有很多同事朋友和她一樣都單身。

對於感情與婚姻，林湘萍比之前成熟了，但也更實際。

“這個社會太多變化了，可能現在擁有，不代表以後或一輩子都會擁有。我現在比較現實一點，如果有的話，當然是好事，但經營一段感情，不是容易的事，經營一段婚姻，更是不容易，尤其是家庭有了孩子之後，要有很多妥協。”

幾個月前受訪時曾透露有交往對象，被問到進展如何，林湘萍表示不方便說，等有比較確定的答案再講。

至於日後戀情公開與否，她認為很多東西都是一個問號，“等我真的嫁出去了再說”。她更不排除閃婚，直呼“感覺對了，就不要考慮那麼多”。

和男性朋友互稱brother

談到《我要嫁出去》，林湘萍認為它很真實，應該會讓很多女性覺得感同身受，在心中找到3個女主角的成分。

林湘萍笑說，自己和Rainbow一樣講義氣，會為朋友出氣，但絕對沒有那麼愛美，不會穿那麼多緊身衣服，也不會露事業線。

發電廠Rainbow撒嬌功夫一流，很懂得抓住男人的心，林湘萍自嘆不如，自稱很失敗，從沒想過要跟別人撒嬌，覺得很彆扭，看到別的女生撒嬌也是受不了。

以前讀女校的林湘萍，身旁有很多男性朋友，都是所謂的哥兒們，如張耀棟和陳泓宇，都直接叫她“brother”。

林湘萍透露，她是家中的二姐，從小就給媽媽鍛煉，幫忙家事，媽媽還曾跟她說：你本來應該是一個男生的。媽媽過世得早，她就覺得自己有責任保護姐妹。

當記者開玩笑說她可以嘗試穿成Rainbow那樣，林湘萍大笑了一番，表示：“我怕我露了沒人看！”

她表示，曾有人問她是否能女人一點，不要這麼強，什麼都自己打理，反而該讓男生知道她是需要幫忙的。

她補充：“在這一點我還在慢慢學習，會開始覺得可能真的要弱不經風一點點，像古裝劇那樣。”

雅慧曾倒追過男生

為了戲增肥6公斤，雅慧對腰間肉非常自覺，體驗到了角色梁若仙的自卑感。

不過，與梁若仙不同的是，雅慧在感情方面挺有自信，更不介意去搭訕心儀對象，交個朋友。

她表示，以前讀中學時曾倒追過男生，頻傳簡訊給對方，還會買東西送他。

如今當了藝人，雖然覺得被拒絕很丟臉，但目前單身的雅慧也沒把話說死，覺得要看“對的時機，對的地方，對的”。

她也透露，自己挺會撒嬌，但不可能每天都穿得像Rainbow那樣，而是靠眼神表達興趣。

徐鳴傑希望大家對他改觀

在劇中，徐鳴傑飾演來自中國的實習護士，被林湘萍角色的貼心感動，展開了追求。

徠他笑說，第一次“熒幕被吻”獻給了偶像林湘萍，雖然只是親嘴角，也暗爽著。

被問及姐弟戀，徐鳴傑表示不排斥，但畢竟是男生，他要面子，不希望被女生主導。例如，在外頭吃飯時，無論如何一定要由他來還錢。

不過，他在現實中倒是沒有狂追別人的經驗，是個挺被動的人。

徐鳴傑近期接下了幾個主持節目，尤其是行腳類的《周末自由行》，讓他玩得很開心，也很滿足綜藝節目所帶來的曝光率。

至於表現，徐鳴傑給自己打6分，雖然自認語言能力不錯，說起來順暢，但也自知太吵了。

《才華》至今已兩年，徐鳴傑表示：“前兩年是我打基礎的時候，我還不知道我什麼時候可以飛，但我現在可以開始走。”

他盼大家可以對他改觀，並透露蠻多人對他有偏見，因為他不會刻意討好別人，不熟的話也不會跟人說話，就算對方是監製。

目前，徐鳴傑在拍攝情境劇《阿兵新傳》，表示羨慕本地男生當兵，認為那是男生變成男人的經歷。

劉子絢為角色瘦身大秀性感

《我要嫁出去》中，劉子絢飾演性感風騷講義氣的紅娘公司老闆Rainbow。她的角色十分有自信，也很了解男人，不是穿緊身裙，就是露出事業線，甚至還穿著比基尼打排球。

她透露，那場戲原本不需要她脫，只是穿著背心打排球，但導演下雨停工回去看錄影后，認為效果不夠好，希望能加強，那也就是要她脫。

劉子絢坦言：“開始時我也有一些反抗，因為剛開拍不久，我有一些微胖，有小肚腩，脫的話不是侮辱觀眾眼睛嗎？”

所以，導演給了劉子絢一個月瘦身，才續拍那場戲。雖然不是首次穿著比基尼出現在熒幕上，但劉子絢笑說以前很瘦，拍《我要嫁出去》前的一部戲，穿的衣服比較寬鬆，也吃得比較多，所以養了個小肚腩。

她補充，為了這部戲已經有積極瘦身，只是沒想到要露這麼多。

至於效果是否達到，劉子絢表示，導演應該滿意，她也感到OK，'營造不一樣的感覺，犧牲是值得的，大家看到的是不一樣的我'。

自嘲太笨，向角色學習

Rainbow是劇中的發電廠，除了故意裝柔弱，引來男人疼惜，連女生好友也不放過，會靠撒嬌得到想要的。

劉子絢表示，她這次投入了200%，因為對她來說，或許騷一點就感覺夠了，但對其他人來說，卻仍不到位。她也透露，在塑造Rainbow這個角色時，從好友王愛玲身上取到靈感。

雖然性格上與Rainbow明顯不同，劉子絢倒是體會了她的好。

“我覺得，這樣的女生其實還真很好用，很方便。（是要跟角色學習？）對，其實很多事情，男生很好騙，只要衣服穿少一點，性感一點，可能工作起來就方便一點。”

她笑著補充：“覺得自己以前太笨了啦。”

與林湘萍雅慧玩超開

Rainbow在劇中有兩位同住個屋檐下的好姐妹，分別由林湘萍和雅慧飾演。由於有不少3人的友情戲，朝夕相處之下，3人戲外也成了好朋友。

劉子絢表示，3人從沒合作過，不知對方底線如何，但之後才發現她們是同一類的人，性格直接不扭捏，都“玩得超開，可以很沒有形象”。

至於她們都會玩些什麼，劉子絢笑稱那是限制級的，不能說。但她們都會扮鬼臉，做很醜的東西，並拍下來，而且絕對不能外流，否則就“完蛋，3個都別想嫁”。

與以前和李銘順拍戲不同，由於3人都是女生，有很多共同話題，所以沒在一起拍戲時，劉子絢會想念另兩人。她表示，自己不太主動，不積極，和郭舒賢會成為好友，也是因為之前拍戲長期相處。

劉子絢坦言：“可能是人長大了，都會比較懶，懶得去交集，重新去認識一個人的背景，去熟悉一個人。不是說很難，是自己不願意去做那個舉動......知心的朋友，都是剛入行，年輕時比較容易交。”

在劇中，劉子絢先是愛上王沺裁，之後才遇到了方展發。劉子絢大讚王沺裁風趣，還稱'他是個不錯的對象，如果他也喜歡我'，而方展發則是個用情很深的人。

接下來，劉子絢將籌備自己的電影，劇本已進入最後修改階段，希望能自導自演，今年內開拍。

Jesseca Liu & Ya Hui: Career first, love later

When we got the three leading actresses, Jesseca Liu, Yvonne Lim and Ya Hui, from upcoming ChU drama series,Marry Me, to pick a character that best represents the state of their current (and almost nonexistent) love lives, the trio uncannily shared the same choice – Liu Xixi, a successful career woman and workaholic with no time for love.

And the reason behind it? The long working hours and lack of time to date and meet people beyond their small social circles in showbiz, the girls concluded with slight lament during their separate interviews with xinmsn.

In an all-too-relatable TV drama, these three actresses each play a character that falls under three broad categories of women in their 20s, 30s and 40s and the relationship problems they face today. Jesseca plays Rainbow, an independent and overly confident singleton, Yvonne plays Xixi, a workaholic who tends to neglect everything in life but work, and Ya Hui plays Liang Ruo Shan, an obese radio deejay who suffers from low self-esteem when it comes to men.

A WaWa Pictures’ production that’s set to air in 2013,Marry Mewill be a diversion from the production house’s usual heavy-handed and serious drama offerings likeGame PlanandThe Winning Hand. And for those secretly hoping for WaWa to put an end to their Chris and Jesseca “TV” love line formula, rest assured, the latter will be romancing a new man, or rather, a few men in this show and Chris ain’t one of them.

Since the plot is centered on the show’s leading ladies, we spoke to the three female leads to find out more about their personal love secrets. Read on below to find out who’s dating, who’s single, and whose parents are dying for her to get hitched – for real.

The singleton who reckons it’s time to be proactive when it comes to love: Jesseca LiuThe statuesque actress will finally step away from her usual docile and girl-next-door roles to play a sexy, flirtatious and coquettish character forMarry Me, and we aren’t the only ones excited about the change. Jesseca also expressed her enthusiasm for her new role during the interview and piped that she can’t wait to watch the end product.

Not worried that the audience might be turned off by a scheming and sultry Rainbow, Jesseca is instead worried “about not doing the character justice.”

“Although she is an opportunist, she has her cute sides as well. Yes, I’m looking forward to achieving a breakthrough with this role too. When I’m acting, I’d ask those around me if I delivered a good job and portrayed the character well. So far it’s been good.”

The actress lost close to 3kg to better fit into her role’s figure-hugging and sexy wardrobe. When we got her to compare her outlook on love with that of Rainbow’s, Jesseca pointed out with a laugh, “She has a lot more choices [than me], too many choices in fact.”

The lanky Langkawi star added, “She schemes and resorts to a lot of underhanded tactics to get the guy and I’m a sensitive and thin-skinned person and won’t do such things. Maybe it’s due to the work environment too that limits one’s social circle. But Rainbow creates plenty of opportunities for her and the men and that’s something that I’m lacking in.”

The one who’s dating someone in real life: Yvonne Lim

Having been in showbiz for more than a decade, Yvonne has been through a fair share of failed relationships that didn’t work out due to conflicting lifestyles, busy work schedules, and more. Currently dating someone now, the tightlipped actress would reveal nothing [on her new relationship] except for the fact that she and her current beau have “known each other for the past few years”.　Counting responsibility, kindness, and a great sense of humour as her most important criterion when it comes to her ideal man, this role was an awakening call for Yvonne, well sort of, she says. The 36-year-old reflected on the busy state of her jet-setting life and felt the urge to “spend more time to work on her relationship with the boyfriend and things like that,” after reading the script for the show.

“Cos I’m always traveling and it’s not easy to maintain a relationship. Sometimes you know, it’s very difficult for women. For men you just work on your career and talk about relationships later. For us, we have a lot more emotional things in our hearts to deal with. It’s hard to have a balance,” the actress added.

The one whose parents are pressing for her to settle down soon: Ya Hui

She’s only 25 this year but Ya Hui’s mum has been nagging for the actress to “find a guy and settle down soon”. Having piled on 5kg for this role, the actress who looks a tad fleshier than before, attributes her mum’s sense of urgency to her desire for grandkids. “She would tell me to get married soon so that she can take care of my kids for me. I think they just want to see me marry off to a good guy. Parents are all like that. But there’s no one [now]…”

With her mum on the constant lookout for potential boyfriends, the exasperated actress lets on, “My mum will take note of news anchors and reporters and tell me this one’s good looking, this one looks pretty decent and push for me to befriend them!“

Mum’s constant nagging could be one reason why close celeb buddies like Rebecca Lim has tried to matchmake her with their guy pals. “Rebecca is super funny! At the 30th Drama Anniversary show, she said to me ‘Ai Ai (their nicknames for one another), can I intro you to one of my friends?’ She’s worried that I can’t get married!” exclaimed Ya Hui, laughing.

Pierre Png: I will be a good dad

（The Marry Me actor2 shares his thoughts on adoption, parenting, and the most romantic thing he’s ever done for a girl.）

Pierre Png says he will make a good dad, just like his own “cool” father was to him as a child. The MediaCorp actor2 cannot wait to start a family, but he and his wife, Andrea De Cruz, are still sitting on plans to adopt as they’re waiting for the right moment.

“Adoption is a very sensitive and serious decision to make,” he told xinmsn in an interview following the press conference for Channel U’sMarry Me, held at a picturesque cafe in Bishan Park. “You’re changing someone’s life, including your own. It’s not just something you can do just because you ‘feel good’.”

“Right now we’re just going with the flow. But if a baby magically appears on our doorstep one day, then we’ll take it as a sign from God,” Pierre joked.

Pierre and Andrea are unlikely to conceive as Andrea is on anti-rejection medication after an organ transplant in 2002. The actress suffered from liver failure after taking slimming pills, but was pulled from the brink of death when Pierre donated part of his own liver to her.

When asked what kind of parent he’d make, Pierre declared confidently, “I think I will be a damn good dad,” and a very long-winded one, he added.

“I’d use the same old tactic as my dad, who could spend up to three hours patiently talking me out of misbehaving. He’s a very cool guy so I’d use his methods to bring up my own kids.” As for Andrea as a mother, Pierre said she would definitely be the “good cop” to his “bad cop”.

While Pierre is happily hitched in real life, he plays a lovestruck cab driver and singer who tries to woo the seductive Rainbow (Jesseca Liu) with all kinds of romantic gestures inMarry Me. However, Pierre admits he’s never done anything like his character does to win a girl’s heart.

“The most ‘romantic’ thing I’ve ever done for a girl happened in primary school,” he shared. “I painstakingly carved her name into a piece of chalk and gave it to her with a note saying ‘Let me know if I should carve my name on the other side’.”

Thankfully, he toned down on the cheesy antics during his dating days with Andrea and just treated her like a princess. “No matter how tired I was, I would pick her up from her night shift and bring her out to eat. I even remember cracking crab shells for her and feeding her the meat!”

So, how did these lovebirds spend Valentine’s Day? As cliché as it is, Pierre told us that “everyday is like Valentine’s Day” to them. “It sounds corny, but after what we’ve been through, each day is a blessing.”

With all this talk of marriage and romance, we seized this opportunity to ask Pierre if he had any idea if Jesseca, a good friend of his, was dating Ch8 actor2 Zhang Zhenhuan, as reported in 8 DAYS (the MediaCorp princess herself remains tight-lipped on the situation). Pierre seemed genuinely confused, but said that if it were true, people should give them their own space.

He also said he’d try to get the facts from Jesseca and relay them to us – butpsst, Pierre, we’ve yet to hear from you!